I’ve had a lot of thoughts lately, no surprise I’m sure, but I’m going to use this blog as an avenue for a few of them. So here we go.
Lately there are some hot topics with the Church. We’ll stay away from the usual Abortion, Homosexuality and Divorce issues for now while we hit up the old favorites of drinking and smoking. In order to talk about drinking and smoking I think it might just be crucial to listen to Dave Matthews sing in the background. So if you would like to listen in, click Here, then come back and finishing reading the rest of the blog with Dave’s melodic voice singing about Christ’s birth with the background.
I would also like to preface any discussion with the thought that the main point of this is love love love. I recently spent time at a gathering of Christian friends in which people who were socially drinking and smoking (not an issue or THE issue) talked non-stop for 3 hours ABOUT drinking and smoking. Again the acts of drinking and smoking are not the issue. The issue is Christian young adults seem to worship the freedom that they are now allowed to drink and smoke. Unfortunately, like most non-drinkers who can’t hold their liquor and get plastered the first time out, these newbies to the freedom in Christ cannot handle it responsibility, so they binge and spew all by way of intoxicated lips.
To borrow another quote from a movie clip, Dogma, Ben Affleck is overcome by God’s “infinite f***ing patience” with human beings.
People need love and patience. Even longtime friends acting the donkey. Dave continues by singing from Jesus’ point of view “Father up above, why in all this hatred did you fill me up with love, love, love?”
I wonder how many times Christ has looked down on you and me saying with infinite patience “even when they don’t worship me, I love them, and one day they will understand, one day they will worship.”
My frustration is legitimate. There is so much potential in that church and with that group of friends, but I see it squandered not because of the freedom they have, but because of their misplaced worship ON the freedom they have received. Do you see the difference? It’s the same with people who worship money, women, pets. How do you know people worship pets? When all they do is talk about their pets. Or all they do is talk about women, or money or Dave Matthews. We all need that patience and love.
We need to remember we are “drinkers and jokers, all soul searchers, searching for love love love.”
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